"No" Is a Loving Word

Saying “No” is hard for us because we live in a “Yes” culture. But our kids need us to say “No” because “No” is ultimately a loving word. I hope that you'll take a few minutes to watch my #FamilyFriday on this topic. Make sure to like the First Baptist Bonham Facebook page to get more content like this! Or return here each week where I'll also post the video.


Here a couple of great articles that I used in preparation for this video:

I Love My Kids—That's Why I Tell Them 'No'

How Do I Say No to a Movie My Kids Want to See?

You Are NOT Your Child's Savior...

You’re NOT your child’s savior. The temptation to rescue our children from the pains of this life often feels overwhelming. Take a moment to view my third #FamilyFriday discussion.


We Need Better Preachers and Better Sermons

We Need Better Preachers and Better Sermons

Recently I receive an email that caused me terrible consternation and frustration. The focus of this email was on church “growth” and suggested several quick “steps” that churches could make to achieve nearly instantaneous “growth.” Setting aside for a moment the formulaic approach to church growth (which has many difficulties of its own—perhaps another article on that later), I was immediately drawn to one of the “steps” and its appalling disregard for God’s command to preach (see 2 Tim. 4:1-4!!). Step 4 was, “Stop preaching and start communicating. There's a difference.”

False Teachers and What Makes Them So Dangerous

False Teachers and What Makes Them So Dangerous

Most of us find ourselves unwittingly taking the Bible out of context or falling for the “popular” conception of a particular passage’s meaning without considering whether the popular view is the correct view. Without doubt, even when we misuse or misunderstand the Word of God unintentionally, it is dangerous. However, what happens when people intentionally take the Word of God and twist it for their own purposes? This is called false teaching. False teachers and their deceptive practices are nothing new to the church.

Myths about Gay "Marriage"

Myths about Gay "Marriage"

I originally wrote this for First Baptist Bonham in the Summer of 2015 after the SCOTUS decision that invalidated laws banned homosexual "marriage." With the recent headlines where the Chief Justice of the Alabama issued an order for probate judges not to grant marriage licenses to homosexuals seeking to be married, I thought I would post this to help you think through the issue of gay "marriage" from a biblical perspective. At the end of the article you will find several helpful websites and resources for dealing with this question. Make sure to check them out.

Israel 2015: A Few Highlights

Israel 2015: A Few Highlights

Well, I am finally getting around to publishing a few things on the happenings of last year...Nothing like waiting until the new year to do so huh?! Anyway, I shared these things with First Baptist Bonham a couple months after I returned from Israel last Spring. Below is a few brief highlights of some of the things that I witnessed on my trip to Israel so that you could get a glimpse for yourself into the land and times of the Bible.

Don't Go on Vacation from Church

Don't Go on Vacation from Church

The great complaint of pastors during the summer is that people treat church like they treat school. When school is on summer vacation, it seems that people tend to treat church as if it is on vacation too. Of course, we all understand that people go on trips and spend time doing some special activities, but a definite laxity is present in churches. Many times, people simply don’t feel like coming, or they find other things that they would rather do. To combat this temptation to let your participation and investment at church fade during the summer, let me provide you with a few reasons that you should continue to attend your church and invest with your brothers and sisters in Christ as they worship and do some exciting activities.

Don't Let Good Things Overshadow the Best Thing

Don't Let Good Things Overshadow the Best Thing

The season of Easter is upon us once again. This is the time of year that we as believers in Jesus Christ remember and celebrate His death and resurrection on behalf of our sins. However, for most people this time of the year is more about family traditions, the Easter Bunny, and candy. While all of those things may be enjoyable aspects of the Easter season, none of them is what Easter is truly about. This is the struggle of the Christian life often times—letting good things overshadow the best thing. What I want to challenge you with this Easter is to prioritize how you celebrate the Easter season this year. Here are three things that you should do as we approach and celebrate Easter this year.

Biblical Morality is black and white. It is not grey.

Biblical Morality is black and white. It is not grey.

Biblical morality is black and white. It is not grey. In our world today, almost nothing is obscene or shameful. Perhaps nothing illustrates this more acutely than the recent cultural infatuation with 50 Shades of Grey. The popularity of the book series along with the media celebration of the movie clearly document what Al Mohler has called an “evolution of pornography” which has seen a shift from visually driven male targeted pornography to the preponderance of narrative oriented female targeted pornography. Do not doubt that 50 Shades of Grey is pornography for its purpose is to produce illicit sexual impulses, desires, and acts that occur beyond the context of martial intimacy. Given this situation, I want to address this apparent invasion of pornography on the larger culture and even in the church itself.

People Reflect What We Show Them

People Reflect What We Show Them

A couple of years ago, Kimberly Iverson, a blogger for The Gospel Coalition, wrote a piece called “Mirror, Mirror in My Kid—Reflecting All I Said and Did.” This insightful little piece talked about how our children often show us what is truly in our heart and behavior. In fact, the whole process of parenting seems to be a giant exercise in revealing the glaring flaws in our personal character, patience, and godliness.